How To Be A Succesful Wecam Model/Cam Girl:
Tips For Private/Semi Private & Paid Chat Rooms

So now you’ve got your client into a paid chat room. Here is where the fun starts and you make your biggest impression.

First things first, you should greet your client and make them feel welcome, maybe getting nice and close to the cam and making some very direct eye contact.

Now, some customers have something fairly specific they would like to see, but you are no mind reader, so you must ask! Without being too matter-of-fact, “ok buddy, what’s it gonna be”, try to determine what they’d like to see. Something along the lines of “so how you feelin’ tonight?” or “how do you like to play?” can work wonders.

By acknowledging their wishes and doing your best to match them (always, of course, within your limits and legal limits) you will show them that you care about their getting a good show, and will bring them back. In respecting your own limits, however, you must be aware that there are certain requirements that we guarantee our clients, namely: full nudity, some form of hardcore erotic show (not just rubbing your boobs saying ooohh) and some form of penetration.

Knowing what a recurring customer wants in advance can also be important. It will show him that you remember him, and he’ll feel special. It also gives YOU a chance to make preparations if a particular customer has a specific request, all the time (the customer who always asks for anal penetration and always insists on being your first private of the evening, for example. If he is one that wants you to use your biggest toy 3min into a private, you need to remember this and do some preparation before he takes you.) Again, keep that journal at hand!

Another big part of a good private is realism. For the best realism, actually enjoy yourself! Voice your likes and dislikes; do not assume that just because you pretend to like something that it will come off well. Customers can tell if you are not into a private and most will quit and look elsewhere for their fun. If you are going to do something you don’t enjoy, do it right!

Try to relax and have a good time while still remembering that this is indeed a performance. Multi-tasking it is! Playing with yourself so that you enjoy yourself, while paying attention to camera angle, light, etc, keeping things fluid, sexy, and making the action interesting for a viewer are all tasks that have to be done simultaneously.

*Of course, we can’t always be in the mood. So learn how to fake properly so that it is believable. Don’t start screaming within 2 seconds or thrash yourself off the couch, unless that is what you would do naturally. Customers DO spy on your privates and they DO watch your reactions! If they believe you are faking, they will lose all interest in you.

Maintain the same vibe at all times, i.e.: don’t be moaning one minute and saying very plainly “is the music too loud?” the next. Remember that you are a Fantasy!

Dirty talk is a common request. Realize your limits! If you aren’t someone who can spout off the nastiest comments on command, that’s ok. Don’t try to pull off something you can’t do, it will only make you and your customer uncomfortable and ruin the fantasy.

Think about what you might say and maybe practice in your head before saying things out loud, to see if it sounds silly or not. Just remember, it may sound silly to you, but at the same time it may be exactly what they want to hear. You also need to know their limits: some guys want a simple “Ooh baby, fuck me!” so don’t jump straight into the “Shove that nasty cock into my wet juicy pussy you dirty mother-fucker!” and some may not want you to talk dirty at all. You need to talk to your customers and find out, or take it up notches slowly.

Many of your chatters will try to get to know more about your own fantasies and possible fetishes before they will take you into private. TALK to your chatters! If you are a romantic, a foot fetishist, a dominatrix, etc. you need to talk to your chatters about your own desires and fantasies. Not only is this an excellent way for them to get to know you, it helps you to get to know your chatters! Don’t be afraid to ask chatters directly, “So what do you like to do in a VIP?” Most will tell you!

You will have a few chatters who are very uncomfortable speaking about their fantasies in a public setting, and will only wait until private to convey their wishes. No amount of coaxing will convince them to talk to you about it in free chat and some will get spooked right out of your room if you are too persistent. Ask once and then move on if they are unwilling to discuss it, but don’t discount them. You can also refuse to discuss private matters in free chat, to play up the exclusivity and secretive nature of VIP.